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writes:Some of you may of seen my last question - Will my parents kick me out of the house for being pregnant at 15 like they did with my sister?. This time its my bf rather than my parents. When I first told him I was pregnant he said he was happy to help. He text me late last night saying "Babe, I think its best if I dont have anythng to do with the baby x" This morning I saw the text, I replyed "Ok, I understand x" and he texted back "What do you mean?x" I said "You dont want anything to do with the baby? Right?x" he said "Wrong yeah I want to be there for you the whole time x"So what does he mean? I dont get it why does he say that he doesnt want anything to do with the baby and after act like he doesnt know anything about it?Thanks :) x
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 Another example of text msg's being misunderstod/ misinterpreted, ... it takes even longer to figure them out than press the buttons godzillion times to type them.
Sweetie - pick up your phone, make a voice call, and get the intent of the messages set clear, ..even better, do that but arrange to meet somwhere and have a big long discussion about it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): being the age you both are at, i'd say he was scared shitless last night. Sometimes a good nights rest helps figure out wats going to happen in the future. I agree with the other aunts... Talk to him. sit him down in a park or somewhere nice and relaxing and just discuss the whole baby situation because the bub is his as well and he needs to figure out wat he's gonna do.
I wish u luck hunni and i hope he makes the right choice for both of u. Xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): men are just weird - maybe he just a moment of doubt as parenthood is a big responcibility.
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