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*eisha4knight
writes:Hey! So my question is how do you get over someone? Like i was in an on and off relationship for about 3 years we were closer than close i even lost my virginity to him. The reason our relationship ended is because i wasn't willing to make the type of commitment he wanted and in his eyes it was all or nothing. I chose nothing but it has been really hard trying to move on...can anyone help me??? Thanks
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (27 April 2010):
Poor you, sadly this is part of the downsides of relationships. You have been very mature in ending it now when you knew it was not right for you!Move on change your hairstyle, wear a new style of cloths and find things that are very different from what you did before. join a drama group, work in a charity, aim to run in a marathon? Write a list of things to consider and then work toward a few of them. Trust me 3-4 moonths down the line you may wonder what all the fuss and hurt was about.
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (27 April 2010):
 oh ive heard this before you wanted to play the field a bit b ie sleep with the guy keep him on the back burner and keep your options open, hes a smart man thats an unhealthy situation and he got himself out of it.
We always want what we cant have, but now you have what you really want freedom to play the field to enjoy it.
of course you will miss him but hey your too young to be to commited any way n my opinion go have your fun and maybe who knows he will be around when your done.
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