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*enny2005
writes:I am totally broken, can anyone please give me some advicei have been with my fiance for five years, which were the best yesrs of my life, we were supposedly so in love and spent every spare minuite together.i then had two very close bereavements within months of each other and became very down, i felt as though i wanted to be alone to wallow in greif, i told him this and he accepted it.that was three months ago, i rang him this weekend to see how he was, and how told me how much he loved and missed me, we met up and spent a fantastic night together, all the feelings were still there.then the day after he dropped his bombshell that he was with someone else and happy but if it did not work out maybe there would be a chance for us, and asked me to stay in touch.my world fell apart at that moment, i wished him well but said i would not stay in contact as he has choose another girl above methe problem is i am broken, cant eat, sleep or concentrate, i feel as though my life is over.the man i loved used me and i find that difficult to understand, i know i said i needed space so it is my own fault but greif made me do that, i wish he could have understood.how do people get through this heartache?
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reader, jenny2005 +, writes (27 April 2010):
jenny2005 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your words of encouragement, i have a good family and friends but feel as though i cant lay any more of my probs on them, i do know i have to move on, its just very hard.and yes he is an insensitive man, i know in the long run when i get through this i will be a stronger person for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): He's done something very selfish and with total disregard for your feelings, he obviously isn't happy otherwise he wouldn't have spent the night with you (he would have been true to this other girl and open and upfront with you.
You'll get through it the same way you made it through those bereavements, stick close to good friends and relatives and for gods sake eat something, you need to keep your strength up, dont give up, but you must move on from this insensitive man.
Best of luck
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