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30-35,
*eira9312
writes:Hey,I have been single for as long as i can remember, and it's beginning to make me feel bad. All of my best friends have boyfriends that are hanging around them everyday, and i always feel somewhat awkward. Sometimes I even cry a little because I think there is something wrong with me. I needed to know if my being single was because i'm still young, or is it something about me? I'm not obnoxious, i'm somewhat good at my academic classes, and i love sports, yet i can't find anyone. How can I get a date with someone and not feel bad about myself for being single?3Keira3
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (27 April 2010):
 hmmm have you ever tried asking any one out?
Well your a girl so i would say dont ask any one out aggressiveness could turn a boy off because there not used to some hot chick actually talking to them moreless even asking them out.
I would say find a guy you like then find reasons to be around him, for instance at school you could ask to sit at his lunch table introduce your self and make small talk.
guys arent good with mind games we like women to be up front but not to aggressive an example of up front is asking him to a school dance, thats sends the msg that your into him but not desperate. Aggressive is saying something like hi i like you, to a guy thats like what the hell thats like sayng im pregnant almost because the guy is thinking ok what do i do now. and at your age the guys will have a deer in the headlight look.
if a girl told me she liked me i would ask her how much but thats just me.
oh and stop crying over it all night because youre eyes will be all puffy and you wont be as cute the next morning.
Wear cute clothes to get attention cute not slutty theres a difference.
be friendly and talk to guys dont act all bitter because you think your the only single girl on the planet
get your best friends to help you find a guy,
*oh and dont have sex to keep a bf or to get a bf or because your lonely or bored, you should love the person and want to be with them in that special way not because if you dont he will leave you etc, any ways thats my disclaimer *
right after you read this go eat a pint of hagen daz for the last time
tomorrow is a new day you will be single no more.
and im not on here because i have nothing better to do ok thats not the only reason t just so happens i cant play my awsome video game because i have o free space left on my pc and my mobile drive is full also, so its basically a paper weight with a glossy screen.
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