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writes:I have a question for everyone out there. i have a friend who i have known for about 5yrs she is quite attractive but i've never seen her as more than just a friend, until recently. the thing is i have never had sex or fooled around with a girl before and i really want her to be my first. i dont want a relationship or anything i just want to fool around with her because she is quite experienced and i would really like my first time to be with a girl who knew what she was doing. a mutual friend of ours told me she would sleep with me which only made me want her more. i want to know how i can make this happen, has anyone been in this position before? i would like to hear how it turned out good or bad. any advice would be greatly appreciated. on a side note she is moving to Florida after this summer so this would probably be my best/last chance to make something happen Reply to this Question
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reader, Cotton223 +, writes (30 April 2010):
Cotton223 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you all for your advice i really do need to look at this situation from all angles before i decide what path to go down and your comments have certainly helped me do that. Thank you all again.
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reader, raiders +, writes (28 April 2010):
 If you have sex with your friend, you two might loose your friendship. You two have known each other for 5 years and through the course of this friendship you guys probably develop some kind of platonic love, would you like to ruin this relationship by having sex. Now imagine that you or her develops feelings what would happened than. No strings attached relationship never work out between friends.
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reader, benny boy  +, writes (27 April 2010):
You would be best waiting until you meet someone you like, it sounds like you are lusting sex (which is normal) but casual sex isnt ideal, I guess it's down to you as a person. On the other hand if you want to try things out/ start seeing her, I'd ask her out one night and flirt abit. BUT I wouldnt just see her for sex, it's not respectful or right even if she's willing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): This is a terrible idea. This girl obviously has no respect for herself if she is willing to just give herself away like that without any love or commitment to back it up, and you obviously have no respect for her. She deserves better. If you want to have sex with a girl so badly try committing to a relationship with a girl first. No strings attached sex is just a cop out.
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