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I feel like I have lost everything! Can anyone offer any words of advice?

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Question - (27 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 April 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This isn't really about love, and it's not really a question but any words would be great.

I think I'm cracking up. I lost my job and my fiance in the same month, last year, and am about to lose my apartment cause I have no money. The bills are mounting and although I do have options, I've never been this f**ked before.

I'm a a stable person mentally and have always been strong. I'm always the person giving my ear for others. But lately, I just feel like I'm drowning in it all. Friends have started falling out with each other, with me, and lots of nasty rumours are being spread. I've never fallen out with anyone before really, and I've never had an enemy before (that would be my ex's new girl).

And more recently i've fallen out with my family. I feel like no one is left, and despite being a (previously) independant, smart and sucessful person, I've lost it all.

I have always tried to live honestly and decently, but now I feel completely f**ked over.

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A female reader, chickenpuddles United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2010):

I know what you mean. Last year I lost my girlfriend, my friends, my job, got arrested and nearly committed suicide. I know have no money but money isn't everything. To be honest I don't have words of advice because I'm still stuck in last year wanting it back and I don't know what makes me get up everyday cos I have nothing to get up for. I found talking to a stranger did help, I started seeing a therapist. Besides that you are on your own and that's a good thing. You have a fresh start in life

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