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female
age
30-35,
*francy
writes:well i have dated a guy for about eight months and a half,then we broke up, the relationship was so amazing and fair to the both of us since there was nothing complicated until we broke up over a simple thing..let not take this part of my love life far because i do not even want that history to repeat itself... about a month ago i met a guy who i know really loves me and i love him too, he asked me to be his girlfriend and i accepted to be his girlfriend.. in the process of knowing each other well i told him about my ex.. and it happens to be they are like colleagues.. he told me they meet like everyday and things like that but then he didnt know we dated.. now do you think this relationship will work out while my ex and my boyfriend communicate or should i just try some where else??? i love him very much more than my ex..what should i do.. please help..
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reader, Little Miss Hope  +, writes (27 April 2010):
Uv got nothing to worry about hun,
U opened up to this guy and told him abt ur past.
He should appreciate this, if he loves u like u say he does then uv got nothin to worry abt!
Why care what ur ex would think? I dnt think ur bf is goin to brag abt it to ur ex if he did tht wud be very immature!
It is a tricky situation to be in but I'd definately say follow ur heart and stay strong! Xxx
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reader, fearandloathing  +, writes (27 April 2010):
Depends on:
- How you broke up with your ex. If the reason reveals that you wronged your ex, then that will eventually leak. If the breakup was mutual and harmonious then there should be nothing to be worried about.
- The above will depend on how close your bf and your ex are as colleagues. Are they just office colleagues or are they post-work drinking buddies?
Consider the above conditions and it may bring clarity.
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