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writes:I'm a 13-year-old girl, and as I get older, I find myself having sexual urges more and more. I've tried masturbating and I don't really enjoy it. I want to submit to my urges, but, of course, sex isn't even an option because I'm not dating and, more importantly, I'm way too young. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): try focussing on school work or friendships, turn your attention elsewhere, and wehn you start dating you can worry about these things xx
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Well the thing is that if you dont enjoy masturbating then you definately wont enjoy sex! Until you find a way of masturbating that you enjoy, you wont enjoy sex at all. Masturbating takes a lot of practice until you find the right way that you enjoy, so I would say keep on trying with that and hopefully you will be able to find a way to satisfy those urges!
I dont want to be too graphic so I wont go into much detail here but you can masturbate with your fingers, you can use sex toys (but you wont be able to buy these at your age). You can also either try clitoral or vaginal stimulation, again this is just a case of trial and error. Clitoral normally feels best and is the easiest way of achieving an orgasm but it takes a bit of practice to find your clitoris and figuring out what feels good!
I wouldnt worry too much about these urges, I think you sound sensible enough not to have sex so just try and ignore them! It is just your hormones and it will pass soon, it will just be a phase you are going through! Just keep trying with masturbation, there are lots of things you need to get right with masturbation so it takes lots of practice!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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