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writes:I'm 25. I've been in a relationship since 15 with the same person. We live together for 4 years now. Overall... I have to say the passion and love is there. We're both very confident about that. However, being we started so young (he was 18 now 28) we hit a lot of turmoil during the years. He always says he never did anything I didn't make him do. I know what your thinking....that's what every guy says...lol. right! But here's the thing, I'm not your average woman. At least I feel like that. I've been very promiscious during our realtionship and he knows only what he's caught me in, but...there's a lot more. And yes when I've done things he finds out about then he'll do something too like to call my attention. Frankly, as soon as I see there's a possibility of loosing him...I try to change. I've said that a few times, but I have changed. I love him and we have been together so long and we still can't be without eachother. As cliche as it might sound...its real love. But the huge problem is karma has hit me with gulit and I always think he's doing things. I'm paranoid. So much I'm ruining my relationship because I've tried to catch him and nothing. Can he have actually put all the revenge in the past?
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Feeling guilty is exactly what you need as its pain will remind you to remain faithful, without it you would be as you have always been. With guilt comes paranoia, this is the worlds way of telling you that your actions have consequences and that if the guilt ever wears off the consequences will stay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): He seems quite a bit more respectful of you than you are of him. The only way to truly love anything is to realize that it may be lost. When he finally leaves you, maybe then you'll stop being so selfish.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Ask him. If you still don't believe him maybe talk to a reputable relationship counselor.
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