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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months and he is without a doubt the most amazing person I've ever met, he makes me so happy. Unfortunately due to my history of unsuccessful relationships (violence, cheating etc) I am incredibly insecure and I'm worried that my issues will ruin this relationship. The problem is I feel completely inadequate with him which I've never had in the past as I've always been with men who deep down I've considered to be below me (sounds snobby I know, but I've always been the more sane/intelligent/attractive one in the relationship until now).I really don't want to screw this one up, my boy is amazing and I hate myself for thinking negative thoughts about him when I have absolutely no reason to do so. I'm constantly apologising for my behaviour and have asked him to be patient with me as I'm not used to being with someone I can trust. Is there anything I can do?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (21 June 2009):
 try and remain relaxed and think positive thoughts rather than negative ones. its still early on in your relationship so dont pressurise yourself!
dont feel inadequate, obviously this guy must think alot of you to date you & if he's amazing as you say, go with the flow and enjoy it!
not all men are the same and treat their women as rubbish.
some men are gems, so good luck!
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