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writes:I have written a column before, but unfortunatly, no one seemed to answer. I am about to tell you why I'm writing although you probably already know from the heading - that I have strong feelings for my golf tutor (it's NOT a joke, my school has lessons at the golf centre and I have lessons which are taught by him...lets call him Warren). Any way, Warren is so funny, he laughs at every thing I say even though it isn't usually funny, and he treats me with respect - such as not invading my personal space. But he also seems to be trying to make an effort to know me better. I had a work day at the school, and had to dress up very formally for an "interview", and after school, when I was on the putting green, iron in hand, I didn't even notice that Warren had come up behind me. The next thing I know he's saying "so how come you're all dressed up today?", I was so suprised I answered very bluntly - and I felt like a complete idiot, i said "work day"...yes, I just said "work day" - he doesn't even know what work day is! But I was distracted and shy, and I ended up not talking any more...so he walked away. One more thing, is when we were walking back to the golf centre from the driving range, I was walking right behind him, and I noticed that he kept on peeking slyly behind him checking that I was there, then he got his golf iron(club) and a ball and started bouncing it up and down with the club! Showing off like that while I was present was I sure sign to me that he wanted to impress me. (don't know about you guys...)Now don't think that I pay too much attention towards him, but I have also begun to notice that he... I don't really know what it is called - something like mirroring or whatever - but he started copying what i did. I was watching my sister drive her ball and I was leaning with my elbows on the driving box wall supporting my chin when Warren comes along to the box and does the same thing - glancing at me all the while. Does that mean anything? I guess the real question I want to ask is 'Shall I persue him? Is he attracted to me?'. Please answer as soon as you can. P.S, details of my age and his age are not needed, it is not a 'school school' that i go to, I am old enough to date - I just want to know if this guy is the one to date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for replying, I value any opinion that might be wiser than mine. I will take your advice into consideration and thanks again!
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reader, Starlights +, writes (21 June 2009):
 hmmm, you cant really judge warren because you dont even know him properly, just as a tutor, and i think you should try and keep the tutor and student thing separate and not date him.
It could be your reading too much into all his actions
-maybe he is a genuine nice guy who laughs at everyones jokes?
the point is maybe is he attracted to you but pursuing him would be a bad idea as he's there as your tutor not anything else.
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