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My boyfriend and I are fighting a lot because of my guy friend.

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Question - (21 June 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey people, my problem is that me and my boyfriend have been fighting a whole lot lately with my guy friend because he's always hitting on me and trying to grab me trying to make my boyfriend jealous, sometimes trying to kiss me. Yesterday morning I was with my boyfriend and guy friend. My guy friend started to hit on me then he tried to kiss me WHILE MY BOYFRIEND WAS STILL IN THE ROOM. At first I thought it was just friendly flirting but then it started to get more serious like touching my ass and blatantly flirting with me. I've told him to back off many times and so has some of my best friends and so has my boyfriend but it still persists.

Any solutions to my problem??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009):

Uhh...get rid of him? Why do you put up with this disrespect?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009):

KICK HIM TO THE CURB!!! The reason guy-girl friendships don't work is because there is always gonna be temptation from at least one side to have more than that. I've learned this the hard way. I had at least four friends that happened to be girls that I've known for years. Throughout those years I've always been the one-night stand or two-time wonder type, but I've never actually slept with my friends that are girls. They knew I've always been like this, but when I finally started up a relationship after all these years with a girl from school, all of those girl friends started acted wierd and avoiding me. One even tried to steal me away at a party bu dragging me into the bedroom. Most of them won't talk to me anymore and try to avoid me everytime they see me. I've never thought intimately of these girls, but being with another girl suddenly angered them and made them hate me. Also, my ex cheated on me with her "best friend" who happens to be a guy, and sold me so much on how I need to trust her, have faith in her, all that bullshit. To be honest with you, stick to guys for relationships, and only keep girls as friends... it'll make your life a lot easier, honey. Men are animals.

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntYour guy friend doesn't seem to be such a good friend if he is doing this to you, stop being around him and treating him as a friend! A nice friend doesn't act this way! X

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009):

have to say whether this guy is your friend or not hes bang out of order.

what hes doing is wrong and sorry to say but if youre allowing it to happen it doesnt show you think much of your man.

have strong words with your friend

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