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anonymous
writes:Help -I've been seeing a man for 12 weeks now and things have been fantastic. Texting/calling me all the time how much he likes me, missing me when were apart, and it's been wicked. We're both sociable people and we both have a wide circle of friends and have known each other for years. Then last weekend he went on a 3 day bender (he has some personal problems) and he didn't call me for 3 days. He has now text me (3 days ago) - not called, to says he really likes me and wants to be with me and I replied to say I am really smitten with him and I've not heard from him since. I don't understand. Should I just leave it, I'm not one for chasing and I don't want to look desperate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): I know and you're probably right that he is immature if he cant call me to apologise for going on his bender and cancelling his plans with me without me knowing. He knows how much I like him but I think he feels bad about letting me down, still actions speak louder and he's not exactly bashing my door down apologising. I guess should he bother to turn up, apologise then I will take it from there. I sure do tend to pick the selfish, immature ones!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): If I'm honest someone who falls madly in love in a very short space of time and then has drink problems (bender weekend)and then just texts is either immature or not a healthy relationship potential. Do you really want to get involved with someone who has you concerned about where you stand this early on?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): maybe you both arent into chasing?
what if he doesnt want to look desprate either so is waiting for you?
this game could go on for a long while...with love someone has to put their heart out there or nothing would ever happen - will it be you?or will you stubbonly hold fast and wait for him to crack first?
maybe theres a game going on?i dont know, only one way to be sure - ASK for what you want, MAKE IT CLEAR!mor you both dont really care do you.
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