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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I would like some advice on how to reach orgasm during sex. I've definitely had orgasms from guys stimulating my clit, however I'm not so sure about actual penetration. I often reach a point during sex where it feels absolutely amazing and I have to scream out and I've even cried before (tears of joy!) but it feels completely different from clitoral orgasm, and 80% of the time it's not as intense. Are these actual orgasms? If not what can I do to to get them from penetration?many thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2009): Yes, vaginal orgasms and clitoral orgasms feel very different and some people think they are more intense and others find oral stimulation more intense. My experience with orgasms from actual intercourse was the first one happened by accident and wasn't very intense. It would often take 30 min for me to have one and as I got more experienced and my muscles got stronger, the time it took got less and less and how it felt grew more and more intense. For me, it was like an acquired skill that I had to develop and work on and now it just comes naturally and I can often have one in under a minute.
Being a woman, you are fortunate that you can have both and I would keep practicing with different positions. The key is to not have them pull out completely and not switch up positions so your g-spot gets continuous stimulation. Doggy style doesn't work for me but missionary or being on top does. When you are having an orgasm, you will feel your vaginal muscles contract, if you are not experiencing this, you just need to either do kegel exercises to get your muscles stronger or keep at it. Congratulations.
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