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writes: to cut a long story short, i want to get with my ex link again but he's being long about it even though he said that he wanted a second chance..he said he needed time to think but i don't want to wait, could i send him this text;u cool? i really do want to give it another go i don't know seeing you the other day made me realise that i do still like you but even thought i said take your time to decide i just want a straight answer whether you want to give it another go or not? i don't want to get hurt again and i don't want to long it out, so whats it going to be so i know not to waste my time...
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reader, Ashtarot +, writes (26 December 2008):
He'll come back if he's serious about wanting to and ready to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): Do not text him, It's better to tell him how you feel in person. He may be playing a game with you, and you don't want to come off as desperate.
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reader, hibiscus +, writes (26 December 2008):
I agree with bitterblue!
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reader, reecey_rawwrrr +, writes (26 December 2008):
Dont text/phone him...tell him in person. Say what is on your mind, but just give him time to make up his mind. Even if he was the first to say he wants a second chance, he could be re-thinking about it. But give it time and let him coe back to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): No. Do you not think you can wait and tell him in person? Why spill out important businesses over the phone or in a text? When I am sent a message by text I usually tend to regard it as unimportant. Let's wise up and if we want the others to react with seriousness, let's treat our important matters accordingly, in an exemplary fashion. The advantage is that you will also be able to follow his body language and non verbal communication, which can even tell you more than what he has to say, if you go for a face to face talk. All the best.
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