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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have the fantasy of watching my girlfriend have sex with her exboyfriend that got her pregnant *she aborted* and also with her last boyfriend as well as with one of my friends! how normal is this?
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reader, melface  +, writes (26 December 2008):
Ignore all the so-called "advice" about this being abnormal. Wanting to see your girlfriend with other men is actually quite normal, and is a genuine fetish known as cuckholding. Only you yourself will know exactly what it is about the idea that attracts you, but I have heard many men who feel the same way about their girlfriends/wives that they get off simply on seeing their partner get off. It could also be something to do with humiliation, or lack of control, or many other reasons, but perhaps you should look into the reasons why you find this idea attractive and, if you really want to share this idea with your partner, introduce the concepts that are appealing to you to her slowly. If she really loves you she will at least be open-minded enough to hear you out and tell you whether or not she would be interested in fulfilling your fantasies - this could be through role-play of some kind, or something else that she is comfortable with.
As long as both parties are willing to experiment, and are mindful of each others' feelings and different wants and desires, I see nothing wrong with the idea!
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 VERY ABNORMAL..
Even the thought of this would kill some guys.. Get over it dude..
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): My husband also has this fantasy and I must be honest I have never fully understand it cuz I know if it happened he wouldn't be able to get over it for a long time.
I played along with the fantasty to begin with but now it makes me angry, how can he love me if he could watch me with someone else?
He even asked me to take this guy back to house one night out I had.
My advice try hard to forget it, it will only drive a wedge in your relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): In the general scheme of things, I'd say it's rather abnormal. It seems to me you're thinking of her as a piece of meat rather than someone to be loved and cherished. I'd keep it as a fantasy if I were you - an unhealthy one at that.
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