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male
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anonymous
writes: hi ppl,I know this is silly..n i dont know whether anyone will reply or not..but i really need some advise..I m 18..me and my girlfriend were 2gthr in school and we were 2gthr for like 6 months in cl 12 th..but then we went to different cldgs..we continued for another 5 months and then she broke up..then we met again after our breakup..n i convinced her to be with me..i mean in a long distance relationship...I really love her that why ,i m still committed..but i dont wanna see her sad..our cldgs are 2000kms apar..we can meet 3-4 times a year..n i think..she feels lonely and misses me..and I just can't be with her..should i break up with her ..or be in a LDR..i mean even aftr cldg we might be in different places studying or working..but i really need her..and in a way I'm mad for her..plz tell me how can i keep her smiling all all the time...
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reader, Tim210708 +, writes (26 December 2008):
DONT END IT WITH HER! YOU WILL CRUSH HER!
Keep her happy by ringing her, send her emails. When you meet up, make it something to remember. And, if you feel this strongly for her, buy her an engagement ring, promise to be with her when you finish college.
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (26 December 2008):
Aw, I know exactly how it is, after all, i'm in a long distance relationship myself, I know how bloody hard it is, but a few things me and my boyfriend do to keep close, and happy with eachother and the situation, we talk on the phone regularly, text and email one another all the time, watch films on the telly at the same time, so its like watching them together, and another really good thing we've come up with is, we keep a book, and one of us will have it one week, then post it to the other for the next week and so on, and we write alsorts in it, from our inner most thoughts, to silly things, to little love quotes and poems, all that keeps us close even though we're so far away from eachother alot of the time :) so you should try it :) x
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