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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok me and this girl really like each other, we was talking online and we did dirty things online also but then she told me she has a boyfriend, i felt really bad for what i did with her i didnt know she have a boyfriendwhat should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): Next time check her out with an online infidelity investifgation at www.emailrevealer.com
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reader, vamp-gal  +, writes (27 December 2008):
 Heyy,If she didn't tell you she had a boyfriend, it's not your fault, she should have told you, so you knew what you were getting yourself into, and made a decision on what you wanted to so, you probably wouldn't have done anything if you knew she had a boyfriend, that's probably why she didn't tell you, but that's no excuse. Do you know her personally? If so, try and avoid her as much as possible. If, online, she asks you why you've been avoiding her, tell her the truth, because she has a boyfriend, and you don't like that you did what you did, and she didn't tell you. If you know the boyfriend, I don't know whether you met in a chat room, or what, but if you do know him, I think it would be good to apoligize to him, and tell him, you didn't know she was involved with someone.If you don't know her personally. If I were you, I'd block her, she lied to you, made you think she was single, and what you did, wouldn't effect anyone else but you two, and you two alone. So, block her, delete her, and any information you have of hers, (e.g, number, msn, or if it was on a chat room, with profiles, that too), it may help you to get over her.Or, you could tell her, you want to remain friends, but don't want to do anything like that again, if you feel you don't want to break off all contact.It's completly up to you.What ever you do, good luck.Make sure you know everything about a person before you start doing things like that, if you have to do it at all, really, but it's your decision again, that is. Hope this helps.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (26 December 2008):
 It's not your fault, she didn't tell you about her boyfriend.
Just stay clear of her on msn and next time you do something dirty online, make sure you ask first. It's not too bad though, at least it was only online... It could have been in person which would have been much worse don't you think?
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reader, ?????????????????????????????????????????????????? +, writes (26 December 2008):
hey. stuff like this happens all the time. ive been in the same situation my self once. i know you cant help but feel bad. if you know her boyfriend maybe you should talk to him. not neccessarly tell him but warn him about what his girlfriend is getting up to?
hope it works out.
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