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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Help me please. I have been with my girlfriend for for almost 8 years now. we trust, and love each other very much. My problem is she has a hard time with sex. It hurts her. Ive done lots of research and every couple that has this problem seems to have been together less than a year, and theyre answers are simple: more foreplay. tried that. i have actually become very good at pleasing her orally, she has no problem reaching climax 90 percent of the time when i do this. but when we have sex (even after an hour of foreplay, and her becoming "wet" or aroused) she is in obvious pain. she loves me so, a lot of times she tries to hide it. i have tried everything. i just want her to enjoy sex with me. it's a beautiful thing to me, but not when she is in pain.i should mention my girlfriend has MS (multiple sclerosis) and was diagnosed about 2 years ago. i know this makes her less sensitive, along with other effects to her body. i believe this has something to do with her pain (and difficulty becoming aroused without an excessive amount of effort) please can someone tell me what i can do? i love this girl and have for the last 7 years of my life, i want to marry her. i feel in order to do that we need to find a happy place for our sexual intercourse. i would also like to mention, we have no problems elsewhere in our sexual habits. orally we both enjoy stimulation, where she and i both reach climax. but i know she wants to enjoy sex as i do, without having to hurt.
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