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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm friends with a girl who I like a lot. I like her in that special way. She 's made it clear that she's not interested in me like that but that's okay. It hurts but that's life. I am someone who will walk across hot coals for my friends and am there for them any time of day or night. Well, this girl that I'm friends with has started seeing someone and, naturally, I'm a little bit jealous. But I'm not an pillock about it. I want her to be happy. The thing is whenever she has a problem with the relationship she talks to me because I'm a good friend to her and am pleased that she feels that she can talk to me. But because she's talking about her boyfriend I don't really want to talk to her about it. It hurts. But that makes me feel really bad and guilty then that I'm not being a good friend to her because I want to be there for her and she is a good friend. I always do talk to her about it but I don't want to. Am I being selfish?
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