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writes:ever since I gave my boyfriend head I feel like I've been really mean to him. do you think it's because I feel guilty for doing it. It was my first time and I wanted to wait until marriage for all of that stuff.. but I guess I didn't I feel really bad about myself. He says I've been really mean to him lately. I feel like I am too. I feel like I'm starting to resent him.. could that be the reason why? what else could it be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): Personally I disagree with the others and think it's unrelated or only very loosely. Maybe you're just going off him - all relationships have a natural shelf life. And if you really want to wait then why did you do it? Don't force yourself to do anything you don't want to do. And he hasn't complained to you for giving it to him so you don't need to feel guilty about that =]
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (26 December 2008):
you probably do feel alittle guilty. but all i can say is what's done, is done. you can't change that. anyway it's only oral sex, maybe you should just wait to have sexual intercourse. make that your special thing for when you are married if that is what you want. i personally think that if you care/love for your bf and you feel like it is right, then expressing your love for him through sex is natural and beautiful. don't feel ashamed! there is nothing wrong or dirty about it. it;s part of life.
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