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writes:Ive been talking to this guy for nearly 3 years now. I was going out with his mates older brother.(Thats how i know him)..But yeah...I was round his mates house one night, and he was there. We was having a laugh. When he sat next to me, he complained that no one texts him. I then decided to text him saying "smile", with a sudden surprise, he text back saying he really likes me! i replied saying i felt the same, but he knew ive always liked him..stuff happened that night, we met the next day. things were going great as far as i knew...only prob was that he didnt want to upset my ex because he is good mates with him aswell as his brother.christmas day: we was txting eachtother, he asked me to go to his work, so i walked from mine, worn me out but it was worth it. i waited at his work till he finished, we chatted for a bit, then went. As i got home, we started talking on msn..we were both drinking ect. we started to talk about random things...then came to the subject on telling my ex, he told me had text him...i was relieved but worried. After that, the conversation just died..he was offline, as i read what was said i panicked. It was me laughing about me knowing where his tiggley spot was, he had put "so you laugh" then went offline. i didnt know what was going on, i text him saying sorry, phoned him like 3 times. Where i was drinking, i just go all panicky...I finally got a text, he said how his internet router had reset itself or something. And his phone died so he couldnt reply my texts...as he saw my texts, he then said he couldnt take it no more and that things have become obbsessive...i can understand why he was mad, it was just gone 2am, and i didnt know his net buggered up ect. i text him apologising. This morning i found out my ex is ok with me and him getting together, just the guy i like is saying he wants to be able to go out with mates and hve his own space....thing is, i would want my own space too, im not stopping him from doing what he wants. i ended it with my previous bf because he was too clingy and didnt give me space, so i know how it feels.Im confused with why he has changed his mind, we were going perfect, our main worry is gone due to my ex being ok with it. he was the one that said he wanted us to be together, he was sooo keen... i cant get him out my head and just feel really down about it all..what to do? please help!! ...x
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reader, reecey_rawwrrr +, writes (26 December 2008):
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): I was in a similar problem as well. He liked me and i grew to like him and everything was going well and then suddenly,things kinda went down hill =[
im not sure whether hes scared of commitment, the pace u guys are going at, or both. U might of freaked him out when u text him and ringing when his internet died out. He probably got the impression u were clingy, when in truth u were just trying to find out what was up. I think hes just scared of commitment, and that could be due to a couple of things, speak to him about it. Tell him how your last relationship ended because of clingyness and that you understand that both of you need space sometimes. I just think hes abit confused, you just need to set things straight :]
good luuuck ;D
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