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Ex is confusing the hell out of me, what do I do?

Tagged as: Breaking up, Cheating, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (26 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So a few months ago my first real love broke up with me. I was so heart broken. We try to be mature about it and be friends. Well that doesn't work. I guess we are so sexually attracted to each other that every time we try to hang out, we end up fooling around. Which is a problem because he has a girlfriend. Whenever I talk to him through texting or when I am talking to him in person, he tells me how much he loves me. He like showers me with amazing poems. The problem is he still has a girlfriend. What do I do? I really need help. Please.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (26 December 2008):

So he's using you as a bit on the side while still keeping his girlfriend around.

He has absolutely no respect for you and every time you fool around with him he thinks of you in a slightly worse way.

Cut contact. Stop hanging out.

Tell him that you want him back and if he gets rid of his girlfriend and wants to give things a go then he can get in touch. Until then, you don't want to know.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008):

Even though it may be hard...you must leave him alone because he is only using you. Please stop talking to that guy and do not disrespect his relationship or his gf anymore..because she's the innocent one in this situation..how would you feel if your bf was sleeping with his ex..knowing that he was ina relationship with you....so please let him go...be strong and "say hey you have a gf so why are you hitting on me."

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