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writes:so, last night my boyfriend and i was having sex. we was doing it "doggy-style" and he accidentally went in the a-hole...then he put back in the front! i know that isn't good because of all the bad bacteria...so what should i do to keep my "front" clean??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): Thanks Britt for the update, so we are agreed on douches.. yes all women should be pleased to know that the "vagina as a self cleaning oven", aren't we lucky our bodies are built like that.. Happy New Year to everyone, especially the original caller. Blessings
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): An update to everyone who set me straight on douching...You were right...I was wrong! I talked to my doctor yesterday and as I said I would, I asked her about douching. It was kind of funny, she said: "Think of the vagina as a self cleaning oven." So, again I apologize for the misinformation. It just goes to show ya, you can learn something new everyday! Thanks for enlightening me!
And Happy New Year To All! (don't drink and drive)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): I never heard that in my life! I have a doctors appointment on Tuesday...I will definitely ask her about this, she will set me straight! I've been douching for ever, and never heard anything against it! But maybe I just missed it somehow. Anyway, thanks for setting me straight. My apologies to the poster, for my outdated, inappropriated advice! I will definitely get back to you guys and let you know what she (my doctor) says!
Britt
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks! i will probably see a doctor because now i got this huge paranoia...so i will be at ease. but i am getting a little worried because i think it has a certain smell! maybe it's just my paranoia building...i don't know? but it doesn't hurt at all when i pee...so that's probably a good sign right? well...after new years...we will see lol thanks again everyone!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (27 December 2008):
 I wouldn't panic. Its a well known no no that you dont do it though. Explain to your guy that, he should know that anyway. And I dont believe that condoms make any difference. If a condom goes in the back, then into the front, the risk of putting germs in there are just as high.
Chances are you will be fine though, I wouldn't panic. I expect you would know within a couple of days if you are going to get cystitis or not. I usually know whats caused mine the last couple of times ive had it, because it sets in within 2 days of said cause!
C xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): Brilliant advice Gina, no matter what we ladies should be drinking more water, cranberry juice, using condoms, and having a smear test regularly... I got to admit, that I often forget about the water and the cranberry juice. But it's something I believe strongly that every woman should do.. Thanks for reminding us all..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): Sorry babes, I only suggest a doctor because you were worried, there really isn't anything to worry about. I thought that a doctor telling you this would help you to relax.
We women, have our organs quite close, even when we use the toilet we have to be careful to wipe properly to guard against infection. But there is still a small transition of feces from back to front. I don't believe there is anything for you to worry about, your not gonna die, it's not gonna kill you or effect you for life. As you say, it went in slightly, not enough to do any harm. But we are not doctors, only a doctor can give you advice on medical issues that you can believe with confidence.
If you are having sex you are due a smear test. I suggest you book an appointment and get your smear test done. If you phone your doctor, the doctor will reassure you that no harm has been done. There are people that eat faeces, and few of them drop down dead. The worse that can happen is maybe an infection that can be easily cleared up with antibiotics. But there was no deep penetration, I really don't think you should worry about it. But if you ARE worried, then go to the doctor. The doctor will tell you everything is ok, and then you'll know for sure. If you haven't had a smear test done, then call them when the holidays is over, get one done, and get yourself checked out at the same time. Otherwise just call your doctor, ask for their advice, they say your ok, and then you just continue with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso i should definitely see a doctor? is it that bad??? because my clinic isn't open on weekends...will it get worsen? because only a little of his tip accidentally went it and it wasn't messy or anything??? OMG...i'm scared and nervous now...HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): Sorry Britt, but with all respect I must beg to disagree. In the UK douches are not recommended. They destroy the natural PH level within a woman's vagina, and the good bacteria which helps fight infection. Medical advice now suggests that they are more likely to cause infections rather than stop them. Douches are not recommended for use, unless a doctor has prescribed them for treatment. Douches force water inside you, and if there is anything unclean, then the douche will just push it further inside. Your vagina and the juices that it puts out are self cleaning, nothing more is needed. If you are worried, then please go to a doctor. But douching will make things worse rather than better I feel. Please go to your doctor and ask for some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTHANK YOU britt429!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): Douche with a medicated douche anyway, just to be safe! You will only have to see a doctor if you think you have an infection! Don't freak out about it, you're probably okay, but you should cleanse yourself to be safe!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): Use a medicated douche that you can find in any drug store. If you do get an infection, see a doctor and get on antibiotics. And be careful in the future!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfirst of all...i was an accident! first and only...but i know that when he went anal for a sec...not much went in and he said it wasn't messy or anything. so i can't douche or anything to clean it out? do i have to see a doctor?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (26 December 2008):
Too late, its done. You might get Cystitis, or you might be lucky. Just tell him not to repeat the 'accident' again. *rolls my eyes*
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): Don't have backdoor sex then do it in the front. Simple
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