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writes:I'm 14, and i have a boyfriend and we have been going out since the end of october. we also went out near the end of july, but i ended it with him in august when i found out he had cheated on me. i got back with him in october because all our friends went out together to a nightclub, and seeing him again, made all my feelings rush back for him. now i really don't like him and see us having no future, we never meet up, we hardly talk, and i just honestly don't want a boyfriend. please help me end it in the easiest way for both of us. thanks.
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reader, reecey_rawwrrr +, writes (26 December 2008):
 hey!
ive been in the same position before and to be honest, yeah it sucks.
When it comes to that "meeting up with friends and ex", it's annoying becuase you would think about the previous feelings you had for your ex and would give you the feeling that you still like him.
But yeah, getting back with him has obviously made you realise that spark has gone. Just explain to him calmly how you really feel about it and how things have changed. He was the one that threw it all away the first time by cheating. so dont have any guilt in wanting to end it. Then hopefully he will realise what a mistake he made.
(sorry if any of that didnt help)
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