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writes:Hi. I'm a 23 year old male who has been with my g/f for 2 years now. When we started going out, our sex life was healthy. But we haven't slept together for over a year. I tried talking to her about it, but she kind of just doesn't even give me a straight answer. What should I do?I know sex isn't everything in a relationship, but these days she shows me no more affection than the generic peck on the lips when we go to work. And if I bring it up, I'm just being an a$%hole male after only one thing. I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): If she won't even talk about it she is the one being an a$%hole.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): Sorry mate but you two are so young to be having these sort of troubles. You need to have a sex life at any age. Have a good chat with her and be prepared to move on.Life is too short and you shouldnt have to put up with that sort of crap. Talk openly and freely and you are not an A***hole. You are a kind, loyal, thoughtful and loving person who want to be close to your woman.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): Get rid of her - this one is going nowhere fast. When she realises she might lose you she'll either be very sad or very happy. Depending on her response you'll know better where you stand.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): Hiya, can you guarentee she hasn't met anyone else? It sounds like the type of behaviour where she is trying to push you away or perhaps there is more to it than that, does she have a problem or a worry that she has kept too herself all this time.You really need to talk to her, which is difficult when you say she closes herself off from you, try not to approach it from the sex angle as this seems to rub her up the wrong way.Start by asking her if you have affended her in some way or if she is worried about something, unless she talks to you then there is not alot you can do to resolve this issue.
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