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writes:A while ago my girlfriend and I had a rough going of separate ways. A little over a month ago we began seeing each other again.Before our breakup, I was head-over-heals for her, and when we began dating again started off the same. While we were broken up, I found out what kind of a person she was before we dated. She was in no way discriminate about who she had sex with. I know that past is history, but I have to look at the facts. I dont judge her for it, but its not something I look for in a relationship.I ask that you not focus your answers on telling me how wrong I am for deciding what I'm about to say... instead more of how I can deal with it.I figured if I could have sex with a few women, then I would be able to see passed her past. I cheated on her 5 times. I never had sex with these women, only kissed. Over the time I realized that we arent made for each other, and we need to go our separate ways. Its hard to break it off, because she always tells me that she knows that I am the one for her.I have met someone new, and I need advice on how to break it off... as it truly is difficult.
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reader, little miss helpful  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 first of all sorry but 2 wrongs dont make a right.
now ive got that out the way you are right you 2 sound likeyou shouldnt be together its making you unhappy and relationships shouldnt be like that.
you just need to tell her how your feeling and what you have done yes she wil get upset but there is someone out there for the both of you. you wil move on and so will she. the longer you leave it the move upset she will be just get it done then you can both move on with your lifes.
hope i helped.
take care of yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): There is no point in wrapping the situation in a bubble, You couldnt see past her previous choice of sexual relationship and your feelings changed.You tried but it didnt work, even trying to cheat you were unable to do.Thats good.
Its time to tell the truth.Although she says you are the one for her, she will find someone else and if you have found someone that will make you happier, more comfortable and your mind will be at rest then it deserves a chance. Bite the bullet, theres no easy way out.
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