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writes:I have the worse problem. It was this guy that I was seeing, as well as sexually. We were always together, it's like we went togrther,but there was no title on it. I let myself fall in love with him after only 4 months. Now he claims that he never loved and that the only thing that made him feel that he was in love was the sex we had. He made me into a fool and after all this, I'm still crazy about him. What can I do to get over this clown? Reply to this Question
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reader, rcn +, writes (20 September 2007):
 First come to a realization. HE IS FULL OF IT. I'll tell you why, Sex=Sex Love=soooooo much more with sex being used as an expression of that love. He's feeding you a line. If all he wanted was the sex, the sex, in its self, would not make him feel as if he was in love with you. If it was just the sex, he felt horny. That's not love.It's not your fault, it's his for not being honest with you and with himself about the relationship. You should never apologize for feelings you develop. That's almost as bad as apologizing for being you.Be grateful you found out he was a flake before you had a couple of little ones and a marriage to deal with. You can start fresh. To get over him, start with yourself. Eliminate any blame you may feel for what happened. Realize you are a good person, and deserve someone who will treat you well, and when you fall in love with them, they will fall in love with you too.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (19 September 2007):
Maybe you have poor judgment and enjoy being used. Maybe you learned a lession and won't repeat the mistake.
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