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writes: I want to get back with my ex, I think she wants to as well, I'm not sure (you got to take risks in life though!). What is the best way to do this (I dont want to sound too serious and desperate so as to scare her off)?
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (20 September 2007):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWould it be better to go through the 'friends' bit again first, or if I do that, will I risk losing her for good? Even if I ask her out again will I risk losing her for good?
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (19 September 2007):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI went out with her before - why am I so nervous to pick up the phone and ask her out again?!
I was actually thinking about asking her in a text, or maybe that's too impersonal!
And that suggestion Little Miss Helpful made is a very good suggestion!
What do other readers think?
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (19 September 2007):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf she says no, should I leave it for good, or wait?
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reader, little miss helpful +, writes (19 September 2007):
tell her that you have missed you and her. ask her how she feels about having a relationship.dont tel her what you want just bring it up in a normal conversation eg:i was watching this film the other night and everyone was in a relationship and it get me thinking about relationships. (then ask her) what do you think and feel about them would you say you was ready for one?this way if she says no! you could just say no neither am i so it would look like you was actually on about the film. if she says yes! make your move.
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