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*ove hurts!!
writes:Hi!!so Im really heart broken!so I was with this guy and I heard he was cheating on me so I wanted to get him back and I really liked this kid, I liked him sence 7 th grade, he was the kinda guy you would dream of liking you and he liked me so I went and hung out with him cause he asked if I wanted to hang and we had been talkin on myspace for about a month so I was really excited!!well I met up with him and and he huged me reall tight I felt the most compterbal around him more then I did with my boyfriend! well anyways the whole way to his house!!when we got there he asked me if I needed eye drops cause my eye was hurting! does that mean he cared?and then It lead in to sex, I really didnt expect it and It was my first time and I told him I had done it before! [[that was before we did It!]] so this meant sooo much to me!Then after he walked me home and the whole way home we talked about EVERYTHING I can still remmember what it was even though it was 10 months ago!Now he has a girl friend and he always looks at me and smiles at me!!!His friends where makin fun of me and he stuck up for me, I dont know if he has feelins for me or what??I know for a fact that hes NOT in love with his girl friend cause he cheated on her!!! what should I doo cause Im in LOVE I tryed to finish myself one time over ALL this!! help me please I need advise!!?PS.I just posted myy story!!I cant get him out of my head It's TOO hardI dream about him EVERY single night!!I hate the fact that he looks at me all the time and the fact that he sticks up for me cause it makes me think he likes me and keeps myy hopes up!!him and his friend came to my house one night and we all hung out and me and my bestie where trying to give him signles that I was hurt, I DONT think he got the message!!I feel like I'm gonna do something, I cant talk to this about myy mom cause she always tells me your too goood for him bla bla bla but the fact is I gave him thee most importan thing I had to him, its just not something you just get over and I told her that!!I told her I lost it about 4 months ago casue I was crying and acting different and I was gonna do something really bad so I HAD to tell her!!I'm 14 and in love and and broken hearted!! I need advise on what to do!!??
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reader, WiiFeyTooBex0 +, writes (20 September 2007):
 well so y'all still hang out or what i think thats what you were meaning and if it is then you know you wanna know summin that you cant seem to get over so you should just ask him if he does or not and tell him how you feel if you cant tell him in person write a letter or find away so that you feel comfortable by telling him and i hope that it works out the best for you and just rember that guys at this age just wanna get in your pants it will be hard to find one that dont i'v had alot of experince with me in that postion and friends so you just have to be carefull and make sure your mind and your heart agrees and why would his friends make fun of you does his friends know..? has he told any one else or have you..he could have got mad if you did and he has a girl friend but i gurentee you that he told his friends but as i said i wish the best of luck to you and just be careful. :)
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reader, Alliehoff +, writes (20 September 2007):
 WOW.thats crazy.Boys at this age havent developed feelings(like us girls)until they're older,sometimes never.anyway,i know the feeling of not being able to get someone out of your head,and you always have this sick feeling in your stomach of what you did.u will probably regret it for a very long time,but just respect yourself and your body,or nobody else will.i wish you the best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): hi am hergielle i read your story and am so shock because i think at your age your still young 4 making love with that guy and i think the best thing 4 you to do is get along with your life ......you already say that you dnt really exactly know if he have feelings 4 you...pls dnt ways your life fi jus a stupid guy who dnt give you importants....there are million of guy there outside the world and if ever you still dnt meet him i think the best think you can do is study hard finish your studies.......................................................................................................then after you graduated.....find a good job and move on thank you fo your story and hope i'd help even in simple way ........take care and move on......he doesnt worth you.........bye and be happy
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