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writes:(Sorry if I've sent this twice but I can't find my other question) I met this girl at a club, she goes to the same uni.. We startd to dance together then startd to kiss, she gave me her number and I messaged her. She messaged back but I got the impression she didn't want to talk due to her un-encourageable text. I can't stop thinking of her and the moment we kissed. I saw her at uni, we said hi at the second and it felt so awkward...What shall I do??? We're obviously still going to notice each other at uni... Should I talk to her??
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): thnx for ur replies. wel basically, i askd her stuff in my txt such as: if she gt home safe n all dat , and she didnt respond with answers or nethin jus replyin sayin she was busy all day and to "see u around at d uni, luv (her name). n it took her long to reply too..im jus confused. i mean, i have loved n lost b4, bt this feels diff, its mor of lust... now i dno if i should get to kno her bettr cuz wen we bumped into each otha (this happend afta she sent the txt) it was lyk *wave hand say hi* n walked off (bt then agen we were both with our frends so mayb she felt insecure then?? :s )i would have had foned her if i had gotten a more direct txt reply back.. n nw afta i saw her agen i dno if i should even speak to her. n it feels wierd cuz we're obviously gna see each other at other clubs stil.. agen thnx for ur answers..more feedback plz? *note from moderator: please dont post in text speak or your posts may be disgarded.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): what did she say in her text that makes you think she did not want to talk??
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reader, Zim +, writes (20 September 2007):
 Yes talk to her! However, was she a little tipsy at the time? If so, then she might be a little embarrassed at her behaviour at the nightclub. It happens however not anything serious to worry about. A number of relationships have started this way. What did she say in her text that was so discouraging?
In any regard, talk to her. She knows that you like her so just send her a text saying would she like to have a coffee sometime? If she's a little nervous this will make her feel better. A coffee is a very good dating choice. Makes both people relaxed and no pressure is on either of you. If she replies with yes, then go for it, and good luck! If she doesn't, or says no then you know. If she says she's got something on at that time, suggest a broad period of time to her. If she still says no and doesn't suggest a time then i'm afraid her feelings aren't the same as yours.
Another thing to remember is that people have funny habits with texts. It doesn't do to read to much into them. Trust me, I have experience in this. Sometimes what they say in text isn't necessarily what they mean. I much prefer talking to someone in person or on the phone.
I hope this helps you. Please reply if you have more questions.
ZIM
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