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writes:hey ppl im so low at the moment.within the past week my whole life seems to have fallen apart. this time 2 weeks ago i had the world at my feet. i had the most perfect boyfriend in the world with an amazing relationship, great health, a place at a brilliant university, a house with 5 lovley girlies.however last week i was rushed into hospital with kidney problems, iv come out and found out iv failed my first year of uni, my relationship has a huge strain because i doubt im going back, the girls are all settling in and starting their second years. i havnt had much support from my friends at all.i feel iv lost everything and feel totally helpless and dont know what to do :0( x xp.s i may have a chance to go back to uni but there seems to be very very little chance.i just feel lifeless and very unlucky! obviously my family have been wonderful but theres only so much they can say
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reader, esepalo1  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 Youe future depends on you- friends and boyfriends will come and go in life first you need to focus on you and only you till you get back on track dont limit you choices in life true friends will be there for you but once you figure out were your at then thats when you will get the ball rolling thats good your family there for you they will always will thats all the friends you need in life soo good luck in your future its what you make it.:)
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reader, hotty +, writes (19 September 2007):
ah. i feel for you girl. well for myself i never went to uni, wish i had, but thats a story for another time. it shatters your confidence when blows like this happen. have you ever thought of taking a year off. traveling or working and then returning to uni. did you fail because of stress or did you just not get it. yes your friends are in the next year, but the way i see it if they really are your friends would they not be over at your house giving you reassurance and support? give yourself time and when you feel ready try and look over your previous work to identify where you went wrong. your friends may not be there for you, but at least you'll make them envious at your determination. go on girl!!!
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reader, JustaGuy +, writes (19 September 2007):
Hey,
I am a recent university graduate myself. Surely you can gain mitigating circumstances for you exams or coursework? I dont know about your uni but most a lot of courses do not hold any weight on the first year, in other words you can barely scrape through and it wont effect you final degree - i'd check up on it.
I was a year beind my flatmates at university and I still had a great time, even after they graduated and I was in my final year they all understood and we still ended up living together.
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