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writes:i met my b/f about a year ago and fell for him straight away but a month before that i was asked by a female friend to move to australia with her as her grandad werent well and and needed looking after. my plan was to move with my friend but over the weeks of planning i met my boyfriend and realised i had something good to stay for. now im starting to regret and resent him for changing my life plans. even though i know its not his fault. i feel like im stuck in a rut and my lifes going nowhere. can someone help?? Reply to this Question
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (23 September 2007):
 i think you got your priorities wrong.
this guy means something to you but you have let him change your plans and your poor friend has had to deal with her grandfathers illness by herself. you boyfriend isn't to blame and the resent you resent him is because you feel guilty. i'm not sure how to suggest you could resolve the issue, but i think your friend does need you.
boyfriends come and go, friends are forever.
make amense with your friend before its to late.
best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): The worst thing about your story is that you let your friend down, her grandad was ill and she needed you and you chose a new man that had come into your life over her.Then you gave away your chance of having an amazing life in australlia.The good news is, if you are still in contact with your friend you can change everything. I feel you cant be 100% happy with your boyfriend or you wouldnt even be having these regrets. You have been with him for a while now if you are serious about him, why couldn't he move with you?There is nothing worse for a woman than feeling as though her life has come to a standstill and you have nothing to look forward too.Start making plans and be happy!
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