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writes:my boyfriend is too busy to see me or call. He goes for a week without calling if l dont call him he doesnt call and when l call he says l tried your number and l failed to get through. He also says he is not the phone type of guy. Tell me if he loves me or maybe he is doing it for someone. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2018): turn him loose. You are not important to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): Thats a good question, I love my girl to death.. I just hate talking on the phone and she has been in boot camp and i havent really wrote her much and feel really bad about it.. But its just me and who i am.. cant really change the past.. Just the future.. Maybe he should move in with you and spend less time apart.. Guys have to have a body to hold on too also.. Not just for sex but just for support..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): I have had this happen to me and I know it can be hard to let go, but if he truly loved and adored you, he would be calling you and not ignoring you. I can promise that once you stop making all the efforts, he will call. But, make sure he is not calling you when he needs some loving or when it's convenient for him. Don't make yourself so readily available. Your time is just as valuable and remember that you deserve the world as well. I hope everything goes well. I know how tough relationships can be especially when two people are not on the same page.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): okay girl i also had the same problem wih the guy that loved me so much and suddenly changed.if i dont call he dosen't call me and he tells me he can't get through my number...what i think is that your boyfriend has someone else or he doesnt want the relationship to continue but doesnt want to tell you because he doesn't want to hurt you.i think you shouldn't call him all the time.just give him some space and see.dont show him you care too much..if he dosent starts calling then i think you should just move on as i did because believe me no man would love a woman and ignore her....
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): If your boyfriend says he is not the phone type of guy, what type of guy is he?
In my opinion he is a waste of time and your phone bill.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): I have some advice for you, if he is too busy to call you and he's not the phone type, then girlfriend you dont need to worry about that,just keep yourself busy too,with other things as well. Its like he doest really care that much,thats why he's telling you he's not the phone type surely how long does it take for him to pick up his phone and just 2 say,hi..., ILOVE YOU AND MISS YOU but he's too busy. You've got a life Girl,besides you can be busy too. A man should know what you worth, appreciate you and love you just as you deserve,in a relationship its a give and take,just show him that you worth it,believe me you'll see the results. Rem you dont have to rude to him, its just a little bit of a wake up call for him,and believe me he'll start calling you daily asking to spend sometime with you.wish you all the best.
REMEBER TO ALWAYS CONFESS THESE WORDS DAILY ABOUT YOUR SELF: I LOVE MYSELF
I LOVE WHO I AM
I DESERVE THE BEST
I LOVE WHAT I HAVE TO OFFER THE WORLD
I'M HAPPY JUST BEING ME
I'M HAPPY WITH WHO I AM AND WITH WHAT I DO,AND WHAT I HAVE TO GIVE
I'M PROUD OF MYSELF
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reader, shynelly  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 I do this... tell guys "im not the phone type" (and I'm not) but this is still not a good sign cuz if there is a guy that im interested in I dont care if I have to reach him by smoke signal... Im doing it. sounds to me like this guy is not that into you and you deserve a guy that will climb mountains to communicate with you...hope this helps..:D
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2007): Life is too short, have a chat with him and let him know just how you feel. If things dont feel right for you then get rid. Sorry to be blunt but that is how it is.
Take care
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (19 September 2007):
Even if he loves you in his way, is he the right guy for you? Maybe you need a more touchy feely kind of guy.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 I'm not sure if this is helpful or not. My daughter is staying with me right now. She and her boyfriend BOTH are not big on phone calls. Even though she KNOWS this, she still gets mad, feels hurt and is suspicious if he doesn't call. They finally found a compromise by texting each other once a day. It doesn't require as much time or an immediate reply, but it does let each of them know that they aren't far from each others thoughts. Hope this could be a solution for you too.
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reader, little miss helpful  +, writes (19 September 2007):
 you needd to ask no demand the truth you need to ask him if he is happy in your relationship and tell him if hes not nows the time to say.
if he says he is happy then he wil be you have offered him a way out and he dint except so you wil be happy.
the thing is you have to tke that risk but it needs to be done.
take care and let me know how you get on yeah!
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