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He makes sure I'm completely satified when we have sex, but he never has an orgasm. Strange?

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Question - (19 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I'm dating this guy i use to see when i was 17 years old, he was my first experience, I'm now 39, and he is 42 years old. he was in prison for the last 10 years.

I ran into him 2 years ago when he was release he was in a drug release program. he went back to jail because his probation officer lie on him.I wrote him for a entire year. when he came home everything was great, now he is boring to me he can't perform like he did when he came home he never has an orgasam. he stays hard and he acts like he is relly enjoying himself, but i can't tell if he really is.

this has been bothering me for some time now. I ask him on several occassion whats the problem. the first time he said he only has orgasam with a old girlfriend he seen, because she was supposed to marry him, then he said he had surgery, then said he was only playing.He also told me that his old girlfriend would be mad at him if he was to get somebody preagnat.

this guy calls me everyday as if thou we are a couple. He is really strange to me. I do love him and care about him, he makes sure I'm completely satified when we have sex, but he never have a orgasm. Isn't that very strange for a man.

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A female reader, faith scott boreanaz United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2007):

 faith scott boreanaz agony aunt im a total sexpert and can tell you this is a common issue thats easilly overcome, there are really great techniques i can share with you to make a guy multiple orgasm. i can share these with you and/or anyone else if the wish just by emailing me or adding my email address [email removed].

remember to email me and perhaps the next time you see him, he'll be totally suprised and maybe begging for more!

yours faithfully, faith.

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A female reader, rockelle United States +, writes (19 September 2007):

rockelle agony auntYes that is strange. Maybe this guy is afraid of getting you pregnant are you using protection? Maybe if you were using protection he wouldn't be so afraid of the grand finale. Maybe you should talk to him and let him know that you are being pleased and you want to please him in return. See what he says. Maybe the other women is on his mind and he is distrcted and feeling guilty. If he is involved let it go leave him alone. It sounds to me like you are looking for more than an orgasm, you really want a relationship from this guy but from what you say it sounds like his heart is somewhere else. Guys in jail are very difficult to read, and they take advantage of women so be careful.

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