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Is okay to go to 2nd or 3rd base with a person you are not dating?

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Question - (19 September 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hiya

I was just wondering what peoples opinion was on the subject of going to second or third base ( ie oral sex and handjobs etc) whilst not being in a relationship with the person? Is this considered slutty behaviour?

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (20 September 2007):

Yos agony auntIt is considered slutty behaviour by many people, but not all. I would recommend leaving that stuff for being in a relationship with someone: you'll find that a lot more satisfying in the long run.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007):

you ned to do so as this is the get to loveing for love i wish i new some one who wood do so with me if you wish call me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007):

do not do it you will wish you had not. there is more out there wait until it really matters.

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A female reader, penta United States +, writes (20 September 2007):

penta agony auntWow! When did Oral Sex become only 3rd base?! Yikes.

I was going to answer that it was okay to get to 3rd with someone you weren't dating, but when I read your question fully, I would NOT recommend it, for exactly the reasons AskEve has mentioned.

Especially if you want to get into a dating relationship with the guy; he won't bother dating you if you'll blow him without the need for the relationship. And word WILL get out. Guys talk. Be careful hon.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (20 September 2007):

AskEve agony auntIf you do this then you'll find you'll be very popular with the guys. Word in the male community will spread like wildfire and you'll lose total respect for yourself. I would say YES, this would be viewed very much as slutty behaviour. Oral sex is a very intimate thing to do and should (in my opinion) only be done with someone you respect and have a lot of feelings for.

Eve

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