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*hazzz
writes:Please help, ive been dating a guy for 2 months that totally swept me off my feet,im a very careful and guarded person normally but this time I could not hold back.We fell in love almost instantly, could not be apart and hated not hearing each others voices daily.He went away for a vacation one that was planned far earlier than we had met so he had to go.He sent me roses and a beautiful poem about how much he loved me and wanted to marry me. we both have our own homes and were debating which home to sell and which to live in.Everyhting was perfect as it could be.Then 1 week ago he became distant, stopped calling me and actually stood me up and went to a show with his friends instead of meeting me as planned that evening, it was bizzare.We then went away this past weekend for a trip and had a wonderful time all we do is laugh and always are happy together.This this monday he calls me to meet him for lunch, he then tells me that he loves me but his heart is not in it??? what does that mean?? im lost for words as you can imagin.Ive told him to think things through and see if this is what he really wants, of course i didnt loose it in front of him but since being away from him I cant stop crying , its just horrible. I called him and gave him a time frame beccause I dont want to be wasting time on him if this is not the real deal.Please help !!
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reader, shazzz +, writes (19 September 2007):
shazzz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi there , yes the gay thing , funny as it might seem crossed my mind. However im am not sure this is the case, I guess anything is possible?
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (19 September 2007):
Maybe he's gay.
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