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*ftamath96
writes:I met this gal at work. she asked 4 my number n i gave her it.. I gotta admit she is real nice n prob auta my my leauge.. but we met up a few times n it went real good......I moved away n now ive moved back n i bumped into her in town n she said she did real like me n she was heartbroken when i left! But today she told me she pregnant. Im cool with that but it leaves a bit of doubt in my mind. Duz she realy want me or just a dad 4 her baby coz d dad aint around? I feel a bit lost coz she says its coz she wants me and as much as I wanna belive her I have doubt in the back of my mind.What should I do????????????
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reader, kellrkd30  +, writes (28 April 2009):
Think of it this way, she is pregnant and is probably very hormonal. She is unsure about why she is feeling the way she feels. She probably has no one to be there and her self esteem has dropped significantly. More than likely she doesnt want you to be the father of her child. She just wants someone to reassure her that she is beautiful and will be there when her feet urt and has had an very exhausting day. Consider yourself lucky that she chose you for this role. It means she cares deeply for you and trusts you.
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reader, rcn +, writes (20 September 2007):
 I would talk to her. Have a good conversation. Express your concerns. Your fears are a normal reaction, but has this girl given you any reason to doubt her intention, or is it because of your own fear of what this could lead into.
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reader, sweetlilpeachx69 +, writes (20 September 2007):
if i were you i would talk to her in depth i have a son and i had a situation like this last year. my ex (his dad ) was a sperm donor i had no clue what a jerk he was he has only seen my son 4 times total and he turned one monday! i wanted some one to share time with and yeah to be with me thru the experience. but it turned out all the guy i spent time with was sex and he didnt get it anyway. but if you want more than that outta this girl talk to her !!!
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