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writes:Hello, I just wanna say summat small. I know an amazing girl and I love her. She would feel the same I guess, but she just doesn't. She thinks I'm good looking, but she's not attracted to me, she doesn't really feel that way about anyone... and doesn't even know what her type is. We're best friends now, but she said if we were to be together, that wouldn't make a jot of difference, it's better that way. How do you spark off attraction if they think ur basically the greatest guy they've ever met, gd looking, but still only see you as a friend?? Please help hehe =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): Hi i just thought you might take comfort from my story i met a guy a t uni 2 yrs agoi when i was dating his best friend(who turned out to be a jerk) but anyhow this guy fancied me and has always been there never pressing or anything just a great friend and i've ended up falling for him, which is something i never thought would happen as he's not all that classicaly good looking and i never fancied him, some times it just takes time for girls to see how amazing the people around them are, at the same time it might well be a lost cause sorry
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reader, aftamath96 +, writes (19 September 2007):
If you like her that much "maybe" you should tell her how ya feel. But b4 ya do tell her that you realy do value the freindship and dont wanna lose it. I think its a real hard situation 2 be in. But if ya heart wants it I think ya'd be a fool not 2 go 4 it. Or at least tell her. If ya dont I think you'll regret it.
If she says that she thinks your attractive then their must be sumats their. try m8 but be carefull. Good Luck to ya gaz
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (19 September 2007):
Usually in this situation you can't get the girl to change her way of thinking. If you must try, go slowly and try to grow into her heart. Take her places, have fun with her and give her little presents. If she tells you to back off, do so and keep her as a friend.
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