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writes:I'm 15 and have fallen with one of my guy mates who is in the sixth form in my school- he is 17. I am completely and utterly in love with him and its so bad it actually aches inside. I know this sounds dramatic and your proberly thinking this is just a puppy love but I am so tired of adults thinking that! I cry at night when I think about him and I actually dream at night about him- which is a real let down when I wake up to reality! He moved from London into the sixth form about a year ago, and he has a girlfriend (or the last to my knowledge he did) but she is still in London. My best friend is getting tired of me going on about how much I am in love with him- the only piece of advise she gives is like just ask if he wants to do something out of school, but I dont want him to think I like him and get scared away! so I feel like I have no-one to talk to. I want to tell him how I feel about him but I dont want to ruin our close friendship, and I dont think he would dump his girlfriend for me, but I just need some advise!I carnt stand it any longer! Wishing doesnt work! And hoping is just a let down. Please give me advise- and from any lads especially. Thank-you.
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reader, Aredas  +, writes (22 October 2007):
 Hi, to start, i know what you're going through, as a girl who im deeply in love with has a boyfriend and yeah... I think that you should tell him how you feel, as i think that if you like him that much, he deserves to know, but remember it's always your choice ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): Hey. Well here is my answer just use as it as adivice - Well to be honest if you like him this much find out how he feels it is the only way. But if it was me i would see if he is still going out with this other girl or still has a girlfriend. If you dont want to ask him face to face , then just bring it up in convosation and just text him or something and just tell him how you feel. If he is a good mate then he wont tell anyone if he dosen't like you in that way . You have to just ask him .
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): Try tellin this lad how you feel i no it may be hard to do but it may pay off in the end. its best knowing that not knowing if he feels the same way about you even if he has got a girlfriend.
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reader, blazee +, writes (22 October 2007):
 heya=]
lol im your age and ma friend had a problem like this as well so i might have some helpful tips on this.
ok the first thing is, if you really really like him, and you cant stand the thought of being without him. have conversations with him, become his close friend, realize if hes really the guy you think he is, and then at least if your close and you ask him out it shouldnt compromise your relationship that much. also look for signs that he may feel the same way, eg smiling at you, catching his eye,
if hes the first person to talk to you when you sign in on msn etc. but if you think he will say no, and you dont fink you can stand being rejected. try and stay away from him, the less amount of contact will help you get over him.
to be honest the only way your gonna get over this quick, is if you ask him out. youll either get over him, or get with him. but anyway try them. and to take your mind of it talk to other people, and focus on something else=]
kk hope all that helped lol sorry it was kinda long=]
reply back if anything happens k?
gd luck xx
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