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writes:I know I shouldn't have done it, but because of past relationships I looked into my boyfriend's history on his computer and found that he looked at a couple of youtube clips featuring very busty ladies. He told me he was just curious when the clips came up in the "currently viewed" section and was bored and clicked on it and that he doesn't usually look at this stuff or porn. I believe him because he let me see the rest of his history, and when we were friends he was never into this stuff. The reason I'm upset is because he chose to look at women with huge jugs - (then again that's mostly what's offered on these sites) - and I have a pair that he likes a lot but certainly not huge like that. It's a blow to my self-esteem and I am wondering if I had huge jugs too, if he still would have been tempted to click on those sites? Is there something missing in our relationship (e.g: double D's) and he looked at it because that's what he really likes? Or would he have looked at it in any case, even if I did have huge jugs? If that's the case I don't think I would mind so much.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (23 October 2007):
 Most guys get turned on by porn and hell a lot of girls do as well ( the friendlier women centred porn that is ).
Does your boyfriend get insecure over the fact he hasnt got a 9 inch penis? NO? Its the same thing really, what's on the screen is fantasy , they are actors employed for their elephantine attributes ( big breats and big penis' ) . So there is nothing to worry about, you only have to go out onto the street and see that these people are maybe 1 in a 100 at best.
You have nothing to worry about, unless you start letting it get to you that is.
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (22 October 2007):
 I wouldn't look too deep into it. I would say it's perfectly normal for guys, and indeed girls, to be attracted by things that may not be true of their partner. This doesn't mean that he would leave you for anybody with bigger breasts than you, so please don't think that.
I would say it's just a mild fantasy. If he is happy with you, and I'm sure he is, then it will just be one of those things he "wouldn't mind" so to speak, but will "live without". I will also add that just because he likes busty girls, I'm again sure that he loves and respects your body.
Don't worry. You have nothing to fear.
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reader, desirewhitefire  +, writes (22 October 2007):
 When I was a teenager, I made my boyfriend at the time throw all his porn out. It really bothered me. But now that I'm older and much more mature, I've caught on to a few things.
Men like porn. They always will. There are some out there that aren't into as much, but the majority of men like it.
Men are visually stimulated. What else could get a man riled up more than some girl with fake boobs bouncing all over the place? It's kind of the same vain as a woman getting a sensual massage. It turns her on and it feels good. That's the way porn is to a man.
I'm a busty woman. (36DD) My boyfriend still likes porn. Why? Because it's there. It's literally eye candy. It doesn't matter how large your breasts are, a man is still going to look at other ones. And there's nothing wrong with that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): He would have looked at them anyway. Don't worry about it. Most guys do that. I do the same thing. When we are out shopping, my wife will say something like, "Check out the babe in the next aisle." OK, we are a lot older than you, but my first wife would do the same when we were your age. Both my first wife and my current one were/are 34B and I was/am very happy with what they had/have. I have no desire for a mate who is DD, but they are still fun to look at. Sorry, that's the way we guys are.
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