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41-50,
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writes:HiI met someone and after 8-9months we were going to get married - but shortly after she decided to cancel saying that she had issues with me and would like to sort through them - then 2weeks after she said she just wanted out and it wasnt going to work. That was a year ago - but we have still had an unofficail relationship... we still speak every day and meet the majority of the week we still do everything together. She has met new guys just once only and still comes to me...recently we went away on a 3week holiday and whilst away she said she was confussed about us and needed time - we came back last week and her mum introduced her to someone and now she doesnt want anything to do with me!! I honestly didnt think I was in love with her but I must be because it hurts like hell and I cant just let her go - its not fair - please help - im so stuck - clearly theres more to it but this is the problem now and what shall I do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (23 October 2007):
 I'm afraid to say she uses you as her fallback guy. You are the one she goes to when the others dont work out.
You should delete her number cease contact with her and get on with your life, she obviously is not able to commit herself to someone long term and while she has you on a string her lifestyle of chopping and changing can continue.
Good luck
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