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writes:im 16 years in age, i know this is gonna sound stupid but i really need an answer to my question i think im in love with my girlfriend, but i feel im to young to be in love. i treasure the little things she dose, im really comfortable with her and we have so much fun together. do you think im to young to be in love? and how will i know when i am in love?please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, J.H.  +, writes (25 August 2010):
 no way i dont think your to young i mean most relasionships start around your age possibly younger if you feel like you love her then you do, but dont make a fool of your self and blurt it out to everyone, girls really like to be told private so my advice if you wanna tell her- take her somewhere special, all alone and then a sunset take her hands kiss her lightly on the lips and then tell her softly she'll be completly breathless! ;)
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reader, megan97 +, writes (1 May 2010):
well im a lot younger than you and i feel the same way and that must sound really stupid! but i belive in love at this age but it doesnt always last! but maybe you are only you can be the judge of that!
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reader, Blonde_for_Jesus +, writes (30 March 2009):
No, sixteen is not Too young to be in love. But is It love? That's where almost all teens get It wrong. They don't understand what love is. When you genuenly love someone it's not about how they make you feel or how you feel about them, it's about what you do about how you feel, when you love
Someone truely, you want to do More for them, it's no Longer about how you feel and what you want, you Do things For them Just to let them Know you Love them, even though you get no Benefit, besides they're happiness, not yours. When I was 14 I saw from a beautiful point Of view what love is all about, I walked into my houses living room and my Dad was cleaning. It was strange because It was midnight. When I Asked Him what he was Doing he said he was doing The Dishes so mom didn't have to. So she could wake
Up to A clean house and not be stressing Out. Now my dad works everyday and long hours at that. He went out If the way to please her, even though it was actually a lose to him. That is Love. And I will Never forget that. So remember, love is not about how you feel, that has actually Little to do with it. And don't let your Teenage hormones Get the best Of You, because you'll regret it. I've seen it many Times. And it rarely turns out how it Should. Let me know How it goes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): Im 12 and i need help becuase i think i may be in love with my boyfriend but i maybe too yong....HELP!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): you arnt too young to be in love. im 10. im in love. we have so much fun and many laughs. when we look into each others eyes we smile. he sed i love you. i was speechless. but in a moment i sed i love you too. were in love and were younger than you. we did brake up though a day ago. but we were back in a minute he felt so stupid. as the saying is true love doesnt mean youll never brake up it means you'll always get back together
i believe that. you should too. be what you feel.
do what you want.
Say "i love you"
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): U can fall in love at any age. I now this because i am just a kid am self and u might not want to listen to what i have to say but anyway. If u realy care bout her then no matter what anyone says u can be in love. and i now how people r they r just like u r young u dont now what u want. but u realy do. They tell u to act more like an adult and when u do they r like u r still a kid but been a kid is harder than been an adult. whyen u r a kid u have to worry bout everything u have to do to become an adult. well this all the way offthe subject but anyways u r not to young to be in love and dont let anyone tell u that u r!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): I do not think 15 or 16 is "too young" to be in love at all. But I do think that your age is too young to have an adequate understanding of real love and all its implications.
You're saying that you are at the point of "something," but you are not experienced in life enough to judge when and where "something" really is.
So there is the possibility that you may actually be right. But it is unlikely that you are right, and you are not a reliable judge of the situation one way or the other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): ...
I'm inlove,
I'm 15 .
the guy is 15.
hes amazing, I trust him, I love everything about him and when we have problems or fights they only last what a whole minute. we say were sorry work it out and hold eachother . we have a prefect relationship in my eyes .
Hes whats happening .
Its our 6 month.. and hes getting me an engagement ring .
he doesnt no i no . and he wont tell me what hes getting me heres just like i dont no if i should give it to you , maybe its fast i really want to tho .
I want to spend the rest of my life with him I'm sure of it. you should see the way we are .
I want to be engaged with him.
so what should i do to make him actually give it to me .
i tryed dropping little hints but hes not getting it ?
and I'm kinda worried about what the parents would say .
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): Im 16 too and i feel the same way about my boyfriend, when we are together time goes too fast and we both cant stand to be apart, we where both eachothers first kiss too. I think i love him but i just wonder if im too young. But i have never felt this way about anyone before!I know how you feel, unfortunately i think you can only decide for yourself if you are in love regardless of age, but because of ur age i wouldnt do any thing to durastic because it could jeprodise ur relationship which is what is happening to my friend.Just be careful, but i wouldn't doubt ur in love.
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reader, niki0 +, writes (31 October 2007):
your never to young to fall in love i fell in love when i was 15 and you know when your in love you get butterflies everytime they are around you constantly talk about them and the very sound of their name makes you smile dont ever let anybody tell you that your to young to be in love x
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reader, jodie +, writes (22 October 2007):
 ofcourse u cn be in luv at 16.
if u think bwt ur gal almost every minute and close ur eyes and picture her face or her wateva thn u luv her. but tht doesnt mean there aint any chance of u endin. watch out it cud end soon.
hope i've helped gd luck xxxxxxxxx
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reader, No1 Special +, writes (22 October 2007):
No1 Special is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks so much
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reader, cd206 +, writes (22 October 2007):
 I think it's totally possible to think you're in love when you're 16 and I hope that doesn't sound patronising. In fact, I thought I was in love with the guy I was with when I was 16 too but with the benefit of hindsight and new experiences I can see that it wasn't love at 16, or at least if it was it was nothing like the love I have felt for subsequent partners. I think the difference as you get older is that you're less likely to want to define your feelings. Relax, enjoy what you've got going, whether it's love or lust and remember, it wasn't love for me but that doesn't mean it's not for you.
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reader, JaffaZ  +, writes (22 October 2007):
 Hey,
Personally I don't think 16 is too young. I was in love at 16 too. It was unrequited love, and didn't work out, but still! And now, 2 years later, I'm in love with my current boyfriend.
Anyway, I think the feeling of being in love is a bit hard to explain... for me it's sort of like, I get a hot tightening feeling in my chest (it's a good feeling) at key moments. Like if you're told your loved for the first time. Also if your in love, then being with her would always make you happy, and you might feel like you want to be with her very often, and so on.
But yeah, I think it's very possible to be in love at 16.
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