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Will wearing it compramise my beliefs, or make it hard to follow them?

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Question - (22 October 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend of 6 months ended up going into a halloween store after we'd found out our friends were throwing a halloween party. After looking around a bit we came to the women's section. We stood there for a while and he asked me if i liked this one revealing dress. We continued to look at them. Then he asked which one I would actually wear.

He's the only guy I've had tell me he thought I was sexy without me feeling awkward or that he's lying. At the time I said I thought it'd be fun in theory to dress like that but I could never see myself wearing a costume like that.

When I got home i really thought about getting a kind of revealing costume. And I thought about how it'd be fun to do it just once.

Both he and I know that sex is not a possibility for now. But, did I change my mind just because i thought he'd like it? Will wearing it compromise my beliefs or make it hard to continue to follow them?

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntWell im assuming you wanna wait until marriage to have sex which is ok.

But i think wearing a sey halloween dress wont compromise your belifs unless you actually do have sex. Theres no reason you cant just have fun with the dress. Like give him a erotic dance or role play. But if you dont wanna have sex, make sure you know the limit and so does he, so you dont do anything you dont wanna do.

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