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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have had two sexual partners and I feel nothing during sex, no pain, no pleasure just the penis. I have only been havin sex a couple years but me and my current boyfriend have done most positions we can think of, foreplay, oral etc and I still feel nothing. I get aroused up until the point of sex or foreplay, I dont even feel anything during masturbation, or exploring, I just end up getting bored and tired. The only way I have ever been able to reach climax is with the showerhead. I understand that it can be hard for women to feel pleasure but I cant through almost everything I can think, it has started to make me depressed which I know will also affect it. Is there something wrong with me?
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reader, valentinesday  +, writes (23 October 2007):
Everyone gets off in different ways. Try being on top of him on a chair and rub your clit on his stomache. This works for me. If possible just try. Its not just about him putting him penis in. I don't feel aroused when he's in action. When I take charge, thats when it feels good. I do what I need to do and I use his body to get it done. Good luck and try it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): Hi Hun,
This is not as strange as it may seem it does happen, Have you tryed enjoying your own body in warm comfortable surroundings where there wont be a knock at the door and you are sure you wont be interupted, As if you are in a house with more than you it can be a bit daunting and not the most relaxing. You may think me daft but if you learn to love your own body and try different things then you may find it more relaxing so therefor more enjoyable, maybe buy yourself a toy to help love..
You could go to your g.p I would think it easier to speak with a woman about this also the family planning clinic can talk with you about this, It has alot to do sometimes with how relaxed you are with yourself if this has been a problem for awhile then it will be very much on your mind even if you dont think your thinking about it at the time, Its something your worrying about so during sex you may worry rather than enjoy. Talk to someone hunny your doc try and find a sex therapist to help you through this so you dont get more depressed as that will only add to the pressure. I hope this helps a little love TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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