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This isn't really a relationship question, but please help me... My daughter is hearing voices at night...

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Question - (22 October 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, *puddytat35 writes:

Im sorry this isnt a relationship question....its about my 9 year old daughter.......each night when she goes to sleep she is hearing voices and she cannot quieten them....i believe but am not sure that they are spirit but this is distressing her and it is resulting in night terrors and extreme anxiety when she is going to sleep.....I have told her to ask the voices quietly and calmly to be quiet and to go away but she says this doesnt help and i often hear her screaming at them to shut up.......

I could be wrong and she could have a mental health problem. Im scared to see the GP who will just think she is crazy and me probably for rising to it!! Help please from a worried mum....

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A female reader, niki0 United Kingdom +, writes (31 October 2007):

ask your little girl what they are saying to her it could be spiritual if so as im a great beliver in that sort of stuff if you feel it to be spiritual then place salt at the door and around the bed and if she knows the lords prayer to say it out loud or in her headdont worry im not crazy or weird please mail me back to see if any of this works if it does not work i will give you more advice i have had past experiances on this x

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A female reader, Nefertiti United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2007):

Hello,

I agree with everyone here about seeking the advice of a professional, as your daughter may have a mental health problem. If she hasn't it will be a relief to have that confirmed by someone who is a professional. Either way it will put you on the path to helping her to overcome it. It sounds like it isn't something which should just be left to see if it goes away, because the likelihood is that, if she is ill and it is left, the illness will manifest itself over time. Mental illness is so common but a lot of people are still in denial about how common it is. I have people in my family and close to me, including my sister, who have suffered Psychosis (Schizophrenia or Bipolar Disorder). I hope your daughter isn't suffering from any of these things but if she is, there is a lot of help and support out there, and she can overcome it.

Take care and I wish you all the best xx

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (23 October 2007):

rcn agony auntThis does sound like too much fun. She hears the voices, my daughter doesn't hear them but claims she watches spirits walking from her mom's room into hers.

What I recommend, which I've heard people do with this issue. Chances are your daughter as she gets older will be able to communicate in a positive way. Spirits are drawn to those they know can see, or hear, or connect from our side to theirs.

What I recommend is having a tv on low volume or a radio for when she goes to sleep. The sounds from either one of those will drown out the voices. Also leave a light on, a night light or a hall light that comes in the room. For some reason the energy from the light, dampens the spiritual energy.

Take care, I hope this helps.

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A female reader, Blue_Angel0316 United States +, writes (23 October 2007):

Blue_Angel0316 agony aunt Please seek the advice of a mental health professional. Children who are troubled by certain things can imagine in their mind they are hearing things. It might be her need to create attention for herself or it could be a serious physcological problem. Don't wait make the appointment and have her seem about. It will help you to get some insight into the problem and hopefully it will help her to let go of the voices. May God watch over you and your child.

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A female reader, desirewhitefire Austria +, writes (23 October 2007):

desirewhitefire agony auntThis seems like a pretty common occurrence. GO to this website: http://www.clarity-of-being.org/night-terrors-voices.htm

I'm sure it'll have some explanations on what's going on. And she probably does need some therapy and medication.

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A female reader, francesca United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2007):

Hi, this must be really hard for you.

Speeking to you as a fellow mum (boy 8) and i am a mental health nurse, I can not stress to any greater, you must be brave for your baby girl and take her to see your GP asap. Not that i am saying so, but it could be the begining of a serious illness and it need to be delt with. You wouldn't leave her with a physical illness and a mental illness is no differant, an illness is still an illness no matter what. Be strong for she needs you right now. Your doctor will be totally professional and the kind of help that is out there does not just support your daughter but you and your family too. Be strong and dont let either of you suffer any more, this can be delt with... good luck and im thinking of you both.

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A male reader, blazee United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2007):

blazee agony aunthi, i would say that.. you need to consult a profesional with something like this, unless we have some phychiatrists, or children specialists on this site that come across your question, im not sure we can help much.

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A male reader, Aredas Switzerland +, writes (22 October 2007):

Aredas agony auntHey, forgive me for the limited knowledge of a teenager, but you need to consult a professional about this issue, it may be schizophrenia (but keep in mind that this is a worst case scenario and not definitely true). I stand with my advice of seeing a professional.

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