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anonymous
writes:please help, i've been unhappily married for the last several years, just recently ive met someone ive fell for, nothing has happened yet but fot the past five months we had been sending each other very pesonal text messages, just recently i accidently said something wrong in one text message and then out of the blue was told to get lost which really hurt so i begged for forgiveness and was accused of harrassment which really hurt, im really hurtin now for being so silly, surely saying sorry is not harrassment?
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reader, agonyunclechris +, writes (24 October 2007):
 no hun it is not
this man is trying to get rid of you for a reason?
the best thing for you to do in this case is to just move on ,
do not worry about the harrasment rubbish ,it isnt
but dont talk to him again as it could be called harrasment
you need to move on with your life , get out there girl .
go join sum girl clubs , have fun , joke , meet new people
leave this loser behind , he is obviously a waste of your time
time is precious hun x
so just delete his numbers and contacts and go add 50 more from new freinds :D:D
enjoy life
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 October 2007):
 As Checkup_Man says, he sounds very immature and incapable of accepting an apology. I wonder how he can claim that an urge to apologize is harassment.
Don't worry about him and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): thankyou for you replies, you asked not enough info to know if it was harrassmant, i sent a number of texts over 24 hrs asking for forgiveness is this really harrassment. Ive been married for 12 years and currently going through a seperation the reason for my unhappy marraige is because ive never really felt loved and always been the one to keep our family together as we have children to.
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reader, Checkup Man +, writes (22 October 2007):
 This guy sounds very immature to me. He seems too afraid to take things further with you and now he's not even BIG enough to accept a sincere apology. Why not join a few women's clubs where you could go on outings, dances together and hopefuly meet a nice real man who can treat you properly! All the best! I'll be thinking of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): How personal can text messages be? They can be graphic but that's not necessairly "personal." It's difficult to tell without knowing the whole story, but the important thing is that you've go to move on. And you've got to deal with your problems in your marriage - with reality. It's easy to put all your concentration and hopes on a fantasy relationship, but it is not real. Why are you unhappy in your marriage?
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