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*nonymous18
writes:Hi, I added a quesion a while back about my attraction to my friend who is gay. The advice I received was really great and made me see the problem in an entirely different light. The thing is we've been spending a lot of time together recently and I've begun to wonder if he might be bisexual.This may be simply my imagination clinging to the hope that he might one day be with me but sometimes when we are together I feel like we might be feeling attracted to one another. Can you tell if someone else i attracted to you?Sometimes he stands or lies really close to me and I can feel his chest or side pressed against me and I think he likes it. I try to think of him as I would one of my girl friends and wonder what I would think if I didn't fancy him. We talk about his homosexuality just as I would chat with any of my other friends about boys but moments like I described make me confused.What should I conclude from his behaviour? Am I just clutching at straws in the vain hope that he might actually be attracted to me? Or is it common for homosexuals to actually be bisexual or still be attracted to gils?Please help!Anonymous18 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): I was in the same situation once and one day when we were alone and just chit chatting about girls that were pretty i asked him if he ever found that he fancied certain girls or was he completely focused on men i just pretended it was for my genuine curiosity, as i wasnt gay i wouldnt know it turned out he was just focused on men but hey i knew where i stood and i didnt ruin our friendship in the process hope this helps x
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