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writes:i know this sounds an odd question but ive known this guy for over a year and the past few months hes alway talking about wanting to sleep with me in front of my face and in front of others to which i find really strange that i just laugh it off. he also touched my bum when he was showing me something,then my m8 who he spends a lot of time with said to my other mate that he likes me, but we are not sure if he was joking when he said this, the guy who is doing all this stuff is getting married next year and is a lot older then me, in a way i just think its a friendship sort if thing and that he feels comftable around me,untill my m8 said this to me. i dont want anything to happen but its just bugging me that i want to say something without hurting his feelings. what do you guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): I'd say he likes you.
Go for it!
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (22 October 2007):
 Definitely say something next time he touches your body...it is disrespectful and he won't stop until you object. Basically he is in a relationship and contemplating marriage and hoping for a fling with you...maybe it is pre-marriage nerves or whatever but don't get used. He has over-stepped the line of friendship by touching you and if you are mates he will always crave more and use innocent opportunities to his advantage. Stay away from him as he sounds like trouble.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (22 October 2007):
 dear Anon.
I think you should tell this guy that you are not interested in him, in the same way he is interested in you, but you only like him as a work mate and do not want to take it further than that,it sound as if he is trying to get you into a sexual relationship with him ,it would end up in desaster.
Not that you would, but if you do get involved with him
you will end up in a world of emotinal hurt.which would do you no good what so ever,if he is getting married in a year, i feel very sorry for his wife to be, if this how he is acting know.
I believe it would be in your own interest not to take him up on his offer of sexual enticement,he is in fact sexually arrasing you,if this continues after you have spoken to him, then i would take the matter to the management, companys can be fined, and you can claim compensation through for his actions.
hope this helps.
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reader, blazee +, writes (22 October 2007):
 heya,
um do u mean that the guy who apparently likes you is getting married?
if so.. i would be very careful. dont do anything with him, chances are its not a relationship he wants, just a little fling. someone who really liked you, and was getting married, at the age of 20 over would at least have the maturity to sit down with you and talk it over. not touch parts of you and act like a school kid getting his mate to tell you. the way hes acting dosent seem that he is interested in anything then getting what he wants for himself, and then leaving as soon as possible. i think you should tell him to give you space and leave off a bit.. unless you really like him, and want to take that chance?
its up to u, i fink you know what to do.
good luck, plase update with any info!
xx
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