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writes:Hi,I am a single female, 39 years old, and I am dating a new guy. I am anxious to have a child right away, and have shared this with my partner,. he is ok "if it happens", but it not interested in working as a team to test my ovulation and have sex at the appropriate time. I have a former lover who is willing to be a FWB and willing to impregnate me yet does not want the responsibilty of being a dad. Should I go ahead and have sex with my friend when I am ovulating, and with my boyfriend, to double my chances? I know this is selfish, but I am not interested in getting married, I do not have the insurance for in vitro and I don't know how long I will be able to conceive.Any advice is appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Can you imagine if your future child ever read this? That you were so not bothered about who their father would be? That the potential father was 'ok' if the child was conceived? Stop being so selfish and think about the child for one minute. This decision will last a lifetime.
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reader, norah  +, writes (20 July 2007):
NO U SHOULDNT ,U should see which one is more attracted to UR physical appearances and leave him
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Ok so your boyfriend is in no major rush but would be happy if it happened, which is totally understandable seen as you have said this is a new relationship.
Are you in a posistion to be a single mother if this happens financially?
Does your boyfriend know that you are considering sleeping with your ex and him at the same time to get what you want, as it's a dangerous thing to do having unprotected sex with two different partners as you probably well know.
What if you got pregnant and did not know which one was the father, and just for arguements sake something happened to the baby when it was born and you needed to know who the father was in a life or death situation.
Having a child is a wonderful experience and i just hope you go about getting what you want the right way for everyone.
Take care.xx.
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reader, _Edward_ +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Well…ask your self are you ready for a child or not, and by the sound of it neither guys want to be a father just yet, take your time…try finding a guy that wants to be a father and can support a family…
I hope every thing will work out for you… = D
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reader, eddie  +, writes (19 July 2007):
 What do you mean working as a team? You're the woman, you know your body. When it's the right moment, have sex with your boyfriend. It's a shame you're so willing to treat this event with such a carefree attitude. It sounds like you're willing to do anything to achieve this goal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): As long as both men know what's going on & you're prepared to be a single mother, go ahead..but do you want to risk your child not having a father? Neither men seem interested in being dads.
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reader, raychell +, writes (19 July 2007):
 Personally I dont think you should. You have to think about the child in the long run. Who is it that you really want to be a father to your child. Also, I dont mean to make you sound old but you have to think are you ready for a child, as there is a lot of work with them. Let me no how it goes
Good Luck
Rachel
XxXx
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